As a parent, your child's well-being is always a top priority. When your child is struggling with depression or smiling depression, it can feel overwhelming and disheartening.
Smiling Depression is a form of depression in which a person appears to be happy while suffering on the inside. A teen with smiling depression may get good grades, do lots of extracurricular activities, and have a large circle of friends, all while hiding their true feelings even from those who are closest to them. You won’t find smiling depression listed in the official diagnostic manual for mental disorders. But it’s a very real condition. Mental health professionals use the term when you’re depressed or anxious but look and act happy.
How to Recognize Smiling Depression in Teens
There are some signs that you can look out for that may indicate your child is experiencing smiling depression:
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Persistent changes in mood: Notice if your child's mood fluctuates frequently or if they seem consistently sad, irritable, or withdrawn. They may appear happy and cheerful in social situations but display a different mood when alone or at home.
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Loss of interest or enjoyment: Pay attention to any loss of interest or pleasure in activities that your child used to enjoy. They may withdraw from hobbies, sports, or social interactions without an apparent reason.
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Changes in sleep patterns: Keep an eye on any changes in your child's sleep patterns. Smiling depression can cause disruptions in sleep, such as difficulty falling asleep, frequent waking during the night, or excessive sleepiness.
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Fatigue and lack of energy: Notice if your child frequently complains of feeling tired or lacking energy, even without engaging in physically demanding activities. They may exhibit signs of low motivation or seem unenthusiastic about daily tasks.
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Changes in appetite: Monitor any significant changes in your child's appetite. They may experience a decrease or increase in their desire for food, leading to weight loss or weight gain.
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Academic decline: Look out for a noticeable decline in your child's academic performance. Smiling depression can affect concentration, motivation, and cognitive abilities, resulting in a decline in school performance. Difficulty concentrating and making decisions
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Social withdrawal: Pay attention to any signs of social withdrawal or isolation. Your child may prefer spending more time alone, avoid social activities, or have fewer interactions with friends and family.
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Increased irritability or anger: Notice if your child displays uncharacteristic irritability, anger, or emotional outbursts. They may struggle to regulate their emotions and express frustration more frequently.
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Physical complaints: Smiling depression can manifest as physical symptoms. Your child may frequently complain of headaches, stomachaches, or other unexplained physical discomforts.
- Changes in self-esteem or self-worth: Smiling depression can negatively impact self-esteem. Your child may express feelings of worthlessness, or guilt, or have a distorted perception of themselves
How to Treat Smiling Depression in Your Teenager
The good news is that smiling depression is very treatable. If you think your child might have it, Book an appointment with a psychiatrist or another mental health professional. Many people with smiling depression keep a false front even with therapists. It’s important for them to open up and honestly share how they feel. Your doctor or therapist will help you decide if antidepressant medications may benefit you.
Other things that you can do to help your child at home include:-
- Foster an Open-communication, non-judgemental environment at home
- Start Sharing your feelings with them so that they get a habit of sharing their feelings with you.
- Spend family time together especially outside with nature.
- Start meditating with them or you can encourage them to start a dance, art, or music class.
- Make them Exercise, even just 10-15 minutes a day is enough to lift their mood.
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- Regularly check in with your teen about their well-being and treatment progress. Be vigilant for any signs of worsening symptoms or if the current treatment plan needs adjustment.
Remember, each teen's experience with smiling depression is unique, so adapt your approach based on their specific needs and preferences. Prioritize professional guidance and support as they play a critical role in developing an effective treatment plan.
LOVE AND SUPPORT ALWAYS...!!